How do I become worthy? Stop giving away your power.
Becoming powerless doesn’t always happen in a single dramatic stroke, although sudden violent offences are always power ‘stealing’. For most people, it’s a process, and the process can be so gradual that they don’t notice it. They are more than happy, in fact, to give away their power by degrees. Why? Because being powerless as an adult often reflects a powerless state from when they were children. It’s familiar. As an adult they haven’t learned to own their power so it’s easy to continue to give it away. More subtly perhaps, they may give away their power by pleasing others in order to fit in. Or by following the popular opinions of the day. Or when they decide that others matter more than they do. Or when they let someone who seems to have more power take charge.
It can often seem like the ‘right thing to do’ —to sit modestly in the background, holding popular opinion, living for or through your children, or letting a controlling spouse control your life in order to keep the peace. In subtle and not so subtle ways, however, these kinds of decisions decimate your sense of self-worth, and without self-worth, you cannot rid yourself of your powerlessness.
Once your self esteem or self worth is challenged, it’s a short journey to becoming a victim. Examine the way you talk to yourself and ask yourself, “do I count?” By telling yourself that you don’t count, or matter, or deserve to be happy, you can make your suffering into a kind of virtue, as all martyrs do.
The victim is always acted on. There are enough abusers, addicts, any number of -aholics, control freaks, and tyrants out there to happily, if not unconsciously, drain the power from anyone who volunteers to play the role of victim.
Having given away too much of themselves, the first step for victims is to recognize that their role is voluntary. It is your choice and you can choose differently. You are not trapped by fate, destiny, or the will of God. When your body is cleared of negative self talk you begin to experience exciting thoughts rather than the old habits you’ve been following. Beliefs are challenged and you are attracted to a different point of view.
Energy Medicine can help restore your feelings of self esteem and put your belief back into your own self worth. You are worthy of being healthy, you are worthy of feeling better.
At Soulsease Energy Medicine your body is gently guided to a place of safety to free itself from illness, anxiety, depression, chronic pain and unprocessed trauma without telling your story over and over. As energetic trauma is cleared, feelings of self esteem and worthiness naturally fill the gaps.
It’s time to forgive yourself and others, replace resentment with love and, no more excuses, believe that you are worthy. Period.